Who would ever imagine that a vibrant mom and a very young
granny to a 5 year old grandson would be leaving this
wonderful world ever so quickly?We
never have an inkling that time was running out on her.She was active and full of energy on the last
get-together we had.Having fun and was
always amused on jokes we throw on one another.Death for Evelyn, was the farthest from our head
as this woman, only in her mid-forty’s energetically
and dutifully carry out her responsibilities and obligations for her family
She was but slowed down lately, when she was constantly brought to the
hospital for kidney problem. Life’s episode pass by so swiftly. I’ve
blogged about the time when we visited her in the hospital last month.I had no idea that she was in a worse
situation.She could still give a good laugh
and joke a little. We were pleased to hear then that she was feeling much better as her pain was gone.
Until the shocking news came while I was in the hospital, myself.Evelyn
is gone!She has joined our Creator. I was numbed and zoned out... the happy times we all had with her flashed back like a roll of movie film. Then I snapped out and realized life indeed is full of surprises. No one truly knows what lies ahead. .. like we could be here today and gone tomorrow. No one escapes this stage of existence. It is the inevitable phase of life. Thankful though, that I had the chance to know and share good times together with a good friend named Evelyn.
Charina was the daughter of our neighbor/friend.She was a typical young lady, vibrant, energetic and beautiful. At 21, she had freed herself from books and school and started to face the world full of dreams and hopes. Like any other fresh college graduates, she was starry eyed and excited on her very first job in a private office.However, fate seemed to be hostile on her. One morning when she was preparing for work, she noticed numbness in her limbs. She could no longer hold something for more than a minute. Curious with number of other symptoms, they saw a doctor. The mom was expecting that she would be prescribed an anti-biotic medicine or something similar, but was shocked by the doctor’s diagnosis.C’s kidneys were no longer functioning.They have shrunk like raisin.Apparently, C was strong willed to fight the odds.She didn’t give up, let alone be overwhelmed by all the complexities of the severity of her illness.She underwent peritoneal dialysis daily and lately switched to twice a week hemodialysis.The last time I saw C was in a jeepney going home.She appeared to be cheerful despite her state of health, still in control, so to say.
However, cheerfulness slowly slipped away.C was losing her two year battle with the disease. And the other day, I got the heartbreaking news.She has passed away.The jolly girl who’s just beginning her journey on the real world was brought to a halt by kidney malfunction. All the dreams and hopes are now gone with her.Last night we bade our last respect to C. I chose to view her coffin from afar instead of looking at her lying inside.By that, only her lively image would remain in my mind.
I was thinking …life is unfair sometimes.For a young girl full of dreams and hopes, how could she be stopped from all the pleasures she’s just about to meet and enjoy?Nonetheless, I do believe that God has plans for all of us in this chaotic but beautiful world.As one verse in the bible goes… “you can make many plans but it is God’s purpose that prevails.”
Sending our heartfelt condolences to Charina's family.
Former President Corazon C. Aquino died at 3:18 am today due to cardiac and respiratory arrest. She was diagnosed with Colon cancer last March 2008 and has been battling with the said illness since. She was one good President of the Philippines, if I may say so. The Filipino people are mourning on her demise. May her soul rest in peace!
After first learning of this tragic news from a co-blogger , I quickly tuned in to CNN TV to obtain confirmation.There I caught on Larry King talking to the popular singer Cher about Michael Jackson’s untimely death. It is said that he experienced difficulty in breathing which eventually led to his cardiac arrest. He dies at age 50. I’m now following on this news.See you later perhaps with more news update on this unbelievablebreaking news.